Steven ([info]unzeugmatic) wrote,
@ 2007-07-17 12:56:00
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In Memoriam: Minja Lausevic


My friend Minja died on Sunday. She and her husband Tim Eriksen, among many other things, were key figures in the local shapenote community. Minja was a professor of ethnomusicology at the University of Minnesota, where she inspired many of her students to learn about and participate in the local singings. She and Tim had recently been living in Massachusetts, where they both had visiting teaching positions at Amherst. The Johnson Chapel flag at the school is lowered to half-mast today in her memory. Minja's children Anja and Luka are 3 and 5 years old. Luka was a movie star as an infant, appearing in Cold Mountain -- for which Tim provided musical background and coaching.

Minja was originally from Bosnia. She founded the Bosnian/Balkan band, Zabe I Babe. She had quite a footprint in a lot of places. The website for her World in Two Cities project is a few years out of date, but it shows the work she was overseeing at the University. She and Tim were completely plugged in to any number of local ethnic communities. Only a few weeks after the big tsunami a couple of years ago they were able to put together a “World Music for Tsunami Relief Concert,” raising money for UNICEF and featuring artists representing affected countries. The local shapenote singers opened each half of that amazing concert.

I've yet to check out her book, Balkan Fascination, which explores why Americans with no ethnic connection participate in Balkan music and dance. I've got to remedy that. It sounds fascinating.



In my head I hold a moment with Minja that remains bright and vivid, from the time Luka was a babe in arms. Tim was performing on the stage at a local outdoor music festival while I was talking to Minja at the back of the audience. Seemingly without warning, Tim introduced Minja from the stage to join him in a song, and Minja -- without a word -- just handed Luka over to me and walked up to the stage, which was probably the best way to handle this. It took Luka a minute or two to realize that his mother was not there. What I loved is that Minja handed Luka over as if this were the most normal and natural thing in the world. Which it was, although I hadn't really spent much time with Luka at that point. This may seem a stretch, but I think Minja's absolute openness and optimism was reflected in that gesture.

My parents knew Minja as well. She and Tim stayed at their home in New Jersey when Luka was a toddler, for the New Jersey Shapenote Singing Convention where Tim taught a singing school. My mother introduced Luka to animal crackers, for which Minja was grateful, noting to me later that she doesn't always know what sort of treats and cookies the children in the US have.

Here is a recent picture of Minja and Tim, taken at a singing convention in Massachusetts last March. Minja's hair shows the effects of some of the treatments for her illness, but what is most astonishing to me about this picture is that Minja is not smiling. Minja, in my memory, always had the biggest widest most embracing smile on the planet. That was Minja. This is still a fine picture, but it seems very sad and poignant to me now.



Minja's final words to her shapenote friends came in an email message today, forwarded from a good friend of Tim and Minja's:

Through Tim she has conveyed her great love to her dear friends in this singing community, and the wish that she be remembered for her life and not her passing.

I've done my best, but it's hard.

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Update 7-18: Interesting remembrance from a recent student of Minja's is here: http://theamherstchirp.wordpress.com/2007/07/17/cheerful-songs-in-a-minor-key-remebering-mirjana-minja-lausevic/


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[info]lcohen
2007-07-17 06:27 pm UTC (link)
holy hell--i had no idea that she was ill.

i am so so sorry to hear this. i barely knew her--i know him a little better. wow, this brought tears to my eyes.

thank you for sharing a couple of memories of her. i'll tell local people on thursday.

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[info]unzeugmatic
2007-07-17 06:33 pm UTC (link)
i had no idea that she was ill.

Off and on, for a couple of years. My mother saw Tim more recently than I did -- sometime earlier this year -- and he gave her reason to think things were going well at that point.

I don't even have a current address for Tim. He still owns his house in Minneapolis, but some friends of his are living there. I figure this will come clear soon enough.

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[info]mrdreamjeans
2007-07-17 07:27 pm UTC (link)
Thanks for sharing this moving tribute ... I am so sorry that you've lost a dear and cherished friend.

Hugs, my friend ...

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[info]unzeugmatic
2007-07-17 09:06 pm UTC (link)
Thanks, Neil, although really the loss is so very much wider than me. Minja was doing good work, and was an inspiration to her students (she inspired incredible devotion). I can barely even contemplate the loss to her family.

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[info]mrdreamjeans
2007-07-17 10:19 pm UTC (link)
Who can ever comprehend such a loss? ...From reading your words, I truly got a sense of the depth of feeling attached to the loss of this woman, loved by so many.

Regardless of the breadth of her friendships, she was a friend to you .. and for you to lose her in your life, makes me sad.

HUGS!

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[info]obempls23
2007-07-17 08:59 pm UTC (link)
Thank you Steve.

Charlie

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[info]unzeugmatic
2007-07-17 09:04 pm UTC (link)
Charlie! Good to hear from you, although I'm sorry for the sad circumstances.

Thanks for finding this and responding.

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(Anonymous)
2007-07-17 09:58 pm UTC (link)
I was appalled to get this news this morning, and only now (with your blog, and a note on the Amherst College website) have I been able to confirm it. I too did not know she was ill - I know her from the Balkan Music community she describes in "Balkan Fascination". I will be watching this site for more information, or pictures, or....

I met Minja in 1992, at the Balkan Music & Dance Camp - and was promptly roped into helping her demonstrate the Bosnian singing style she was going to teach! (I wish the demonstration had gone a little better....it was a steep learning curve for me and the other woman who was helping her out with little practice time.) I took her classes that year and in several subsequent summers - I still treasure the way she not only made the music come alive, but also gave us precious insights into the culture and the lifestyle of the people who originally made the music. I can't believe there will be no more of these gems, from Minja.

Martha

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[info]unzeugmatic
2007-07-17 10:10 pm UTC (link)
Oh my -- I'm so sorry. I'm sorry for the loss to us all in Minja's various communities, and I'm sorry that, as you say, there will be no more of these gems.

She was so gifted, and so learned, and so completely unpretentious and unassuming about it.

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a good memorial
[info]ocelot_flavored
2007-07-17 10:43 pm UTC (link)
Your posting honors her life.

In these situations I often think of the last lines of a favorite Mary Oliver poem:

Doesn't everything die at last, and too soon?
Tell me, what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life?

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Re: a good memorial
[info]unzeugmatic
2007-07-18 02:00 pm UTC (link)
Oh yes, a wild and precious life for sure. Thanks.

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[info]kynthos333
2007-07-17 11:40 pm UTC (link)
This is a beautiful and moving tribute to a very lovely lady. I was very sad to hear about this death that came too soon.

Thank you, Steve.

Cindy

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[info]unzeugmatic
2007-07-18 02:00 pm UTC (link)
She certainly was a very lovely lady, wasn't she? Thanks for your note.

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Thank you
[info]hgybear
2007-07-18 01:02 am UTC (link)
That was (as always) a beatiful glimpse into your world. Sorry for your (and the world's) loss.

But I wanted to say, that from my persective, Minja is, in fact, smiling in that last photo. It's not a full-on, open mouth smile. But a smile nonetheless. IMHO, but with a more than passing knowledge of anatomy.

(Tim looks like he's smiling AND .... something else...not quite sure what's going on there...trying to figure something out or make a decision about something...)

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Re: Thank you
[info]unzeugmatic
2007-07-18 02:02 pm UTC (link)
Thanks for the perspective on the picture. I honestly find what you say here to be comforting, and I suspect you are correct.

Tim is always a bit of an enigma, but a great guy.

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[info]quietdanmn
2007-07-18 01:10 am UTC (link)
My sincere condolences on this significant loss.

A lovely tribute!

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[info]unzeugmatic
2007-07-18 02:19 pm UTC (link)
Thanks, Dan. At a small singing last night somebody told me of her first impression of Minja, leading a song, absolutely radiating energy. The loss of that energy does feel significant, as you note.

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(Anonymous)
2007-07-18 07:10 am UTC (link)
I just happened upon this post while sitting here thinking of Minja. I was able to get together with some other singers on Monday night and we shared many of our memories of Minja and it's good to hear more. Some of her singing friends are going to make a scrapbook that the children can read when they're older (I think there'll be an email about that going around soon), I'm sure the story with baby Luka would be a very welcome addition.

Tim and the children are currently staying with singing friends in the Northampton (MA) area and were able to be at the regular Tuesday night Sacred Harp singing tonight. (If you're on the fasola-singings list I posted there with a forwarding address. Hopefully the email will go through tomorrow - I think I messed up the first time I tried to post.)

Rosie W

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[info]unzeugmatic
2007-07-18 02:04 pm UTC (link)
Thanks, Rosie. I'll look for the note on the fasola list.

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[info]kiwitayro
2007-07-22 09:42 pm UTC (link)
yes, you should definitely send the story about baby luka. that is so great. :)

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[info]solsingr
2007-07-18 04:21 pm UTC (link)
Steve, Thanks for the tribute.

I checked the WMSHC pages and found a couple of pictures from the March Convention.
With Alison Scofield http://www.sheldonfinlay.com/dynamic/php/zphoto/wmshc-2007/_MG_1575.jpg.php
Sitting in the alto section http://www.sheldonfinlay.com/dynamic/php/zphoto/wmshc-2007/_MG_1717.jpg.php

Barbara S.

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[info]unzeugmatic
2007-07-18 04:27 pm UTC (link)
Barbara:

That first picture shows a bit of the wonderful smile I spoke of. Thanks for the link.

We're all a little bit stunned here, obviously.

Thanks for finding this and checking in.

-Steven

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[info]unzeugmatic
2007-07-18 04:35 pm UTC (link)
Barbara:

To elaborate on what I just wrote: I'm finding that people commenting on this journal entry -- in many cases people I have not seen for a while -- is very comforting. It's a way of touching base with others who knew Minja, an outlet I wouldn't otherwise have had.

I find I am unexpectedly moved by this.

-Steven

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[info]wrholt
2007-07-18 07:17 pm UTC (link)
Thank you for posting about Minja. I learned the sad news while singing with Norumbega on Monday evening, when one of the other singers called a song in her honor. I did not know her very well, but we did have many opportunities to chat at one or another singing event or concert over the years that she and Tim have been a couple. She was always warm and friendly to everyone around her.

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Sad, and momentous
(Anonymous)
2007-07-19 04:03 am UTC (link)
Minja's death resonates even more for me after a month of doing genealogy and family history, discovering amazing truths about family and self I could not have suspected even a day before. One recurrence--and I have to wonder if almost every family can offer similar examples--is the powerful effect a parent's early death had on a child, or family of children. Sometimes families held together, although severely shaken; sometimes they fell apart, the children drifting like falling leaves to various grandparents' or parental siblings' homes--or to public or private orphanages. Often the tragedy was not so much the parent's death, but the sad fragility of the family itself.

Although Minja herself is gone, we, her surviving family, friends and students can nurture Luka and Anja with all our memories of their mother and our love for her, and keep her alive and vibrant for them, even though she is in the room beyond, until they themselves walk into that room themselves and see her face to face again. And, although we focus on those motherless babes, their poor father needs our enclosing arms and nurturing love just as much. Very few men or women enter into committed relationships in their prime with any idea they will be widowed and single again so soon, and once the surprise subsides, the gnaw of emptiness can overwhelm. We stand with Tim as well, to go on loving him no matter what, suffering with him, weeping with him, and slowly, all too slowly healing with him. It's the least we can do.

Michael L. Moore
Cedar Falls, IA

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(Anonymous)
2007-07-20 04:10 am UTC (link)
More photos have appeared at http://www.music.umn.edu/

-Martha

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[info]unzeugmatic
2007-07-20 02:23 pm UTC (link)
Now *there* is the smile I link inextricably to Minja. Thanks.

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(Anonymous)
2007-07-20 04:31 pm UTC (link)
Yes! And - you might want to post info about this, which I just got (sorry it's so long! maybe you can "move" it from here to your front page?):

A memorial celebration of the life of Mirjana Lausevic will be
held on Saturday, July 28 in the area of Northampton, Massachusetts.
Exact location to be announced. The event will include singing from
the Sacred Harp, potluck dinner on the grounds, and more
music. Closest airport is Hartford (BDL), but Boston is only 2 hours
away.

Information for those who wish to make memorial donations will be
forthcoming.

Please forward this message as you see fit.

Questions can be directed to:
minjamemorial@gmail.com

_________________________

Invitation to contribute to a Memory Book of Mirjana Lausevic:

We are asking for contributions of your memories and appreciations of
Minja, how she touched your life, reflections on her joy in living
and her tremendous loving heart.

Contributions can be written, photographed, or otherwise recorded.

This book is for Minja and Tim's children Luka (5) and Anja (3). I
is something that will be saved for them until they are older. It is
one small way that they can know more about their Mother through your
memories and appreciations.

We ask that you sign your full name, date what you send and place
your connection to Minja within context so that when they read your
contribution, no further explanation will be required.

We thank you in advance for honoring and celebrating Minja by sharing
your love for her with her children.

Contributions can be delivered in person or to the following addresses:

Snail Mail:

Anna Maria Irvine
106 Hinckley Street
Florence, Ma 01062

Laura Timmerman
910 Greenfield Rd.
Leyden, Ma 01337
413-773-8325

Email:
annamaria@sun-on-water.com
laurat@crocker.com


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Star Tribune Obituary
(Anonymous)
2007-07-21 03:28 am UTC (link)
The Minneapolis Star Tribune has posted a memoriam: http://www.startribune.com/466/story/1315842.html
Thanks for these postings Steven.
Peter Irvine, minjamemorial@gmail.com

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Re: Star Tribune Obituary
[info]unzeugmatic
2007-07-22 09:53 pm UTC (link)
Wow, Peter. I'm glad you found this page, which I hadn't really thought would go beyond a personal statement for my friends who read my journal. I am touched that people have come upon it.

I saw the memoriam in my print copy of the Star Tribune and thought that it was good one.

Thank you for all you are doing here. You have my great sympathies.

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[info]pipyn
2007-07-20 11:13 pm UTC (link)
She sounds like a glorious person.

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[info]unzeugmatic
2007-07-22 09:40 pm UTC (link)
Oh, she was great. I think just looking this picture (somebody captured her smile!) makes that absolutely obvious.

Minja-smile

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pictures
(Anonymous)
2007-07-21 05:34 am UTC (link)
I just posted some pictures at http://flickr.com/photos/46418449@N00/sets/72157600931640322/

I'm looking for more, which I know I have on a CD somewhere, and I have a few from before I got a digital camera that I'm going to try to get scanned in. Sorry these are so out of order.

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Re: pictures
(Anonymous)
2007-07-21 05:35 am UTC (link)
Sorry - forgot to sign that last comment.

Laura

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Re: pictures
[info]unzeugmatic
2007-07-22 09:48 pm UTC (link)
Wow, Laura. As always, your pictures are wonderful. In this case they actually bring back a little bit of life.

I had forgotten that Tim taught one year at Camp Fasola. What amazing things, to see the family in their camp t-shirts. I think of just how far from Bosnia Minja was at that moment.

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Re: pictures
(Anonymous)
2007-07-23 04:35 am UTC (link)
Thanks. The night I found out about her passing I went through and found all the pictures I could, and even that soon I found myself smiling at the sight of them. I think "vibrant" is a word that gets thrown around a little too much in describing people, but if it's right for anyone, Minja would be one of those people. Something of her really comes through in those pictures just because there was so much of her there and I find it at once very sad and very comforting.

I am so glad I was at camp when they were. It was a wonderful time, and of course the pictures of them in their t-shirts are just priceless.

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[info]kiwitayro
2007-07-21 03:20 pm UTC (link)
The Eriksens

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[info]unzeugmatic
2007-07-22 09:37 pm UTC (link)
That's so sweeet!

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[info]kiwitayro
2007-07-22 09:40 pm UTC (link)
yeah, i was sad the lighting was so dark. this was at the iron horse in april at the cordelia's dad reunion show. i've since figured out how to use my camera better. that's tim's dad there on the left.

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(Anonymous)
2007-07-23 12:58 pm UTC (link)
Lovely photo! The detail is all there - I tried a few tricks with my graphics program (PaintShop Pro) - even their "automatic one-click fix" is pretty good, but I like this version better: http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y295/VelvetP/Minja_kids_IronHorse_adjMF.jpg

Martha

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(Anonymous)
2007-07-23 01:09 pm UTC (link)
Oops, try this:

Image



Martha

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Our Minja
(Anonymous)
2007-07-24 08:13 am UTC (link)
Hi Steven,
I am Minja’s childhood friend, in fact we were friends all our lives, from primary school, through high school and than Musical academy in Sarajevo. Minja was always one of the brightest students, person with unbelievable energy and optimism. As you all noticed she was always with big smile on her face and in fact, when I think about our friendship and all years that we knew each other, I can’t remember that she was ever in bad mood, or ever in situation to say “I can’t do it”. News about her passing was one of the worst in my life, as I couldn’t believe that anything can beat her, or that there can be any obstacle for her, not even illness. Nobody who knew her never thought, even for a moment, that she could loose the most important battle she was fighting. There is no word to say how sad I am and all of us, her childhood friends from Sarajevo. Our thoughts are with her family – her children, her mother, her husband and her brother Dragan. We want them to know that we’ll never forget her.
Vesna Willis (Bosiljcic), Sarajevo

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Re: Our Minja
[info]unzeugmatic
2007-07-24 02:31 pm UTC (link)
Thank you for your wonderful reminiscence and tribute. I am extremely touched and moved that you would share this here.

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Still absorbing the news
(Anonymous)
2007-07-24 04:55 pm UTC (link)
I am so saddened to hear of Minja's death. She was an extraordinary woman in so many ways, and the outpouring of messages on the web shows how many lives she touched. Whenever I attended Sacred Harp conventions or Society for Ethnomusicology meetings, catching up with her was one of the highlights of the day. I last saw her in March at the Western Mass Convention, and I had been optimistic that the worst of her illness was behind her. Sadly this was not the case.

I hope the memorial singing on Saturday is in a large venue!

Duncan V., Boston

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(Anonymous)
2007-10-08 07:37 pm UTC (link)
Minja is a former teacher of mine. I learned from her in an ethnomusicology class that she taught at the University of Minnesota back in 2000 or 2001. I will remember her as an extremely engaging and vibrant woman who searched for ways to make all types of musical traditions accessible and valuable to her students. From my five years at the University I remember few professor's lessons like I remember her's, and I credit her with helping me expand my understanding and passion for music from places all over this world. There are many, many times when listening to or searching for new music that something that brings me back to one of her lessons, and I appreciate that I had a teacher like her to help me focus my attention on other cultures. I am saddened to hear of her passing. My heart goes out to all those who will miss her, and most deeply to her husband and children.

Sincerely,
Alek Roslik

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[info]unzeugmatic
2007-10-08 07:58 pm UTC (link)
I don't know if you are still in the area, but this upcoming Saturday, October 13, there will be a Memorial for Minja at -- quite fittingly -- the Cedar Cultural Center, at 12:30pm.

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