What I'm wanting to write about, for example, are some thoughts about what it means to be a gay man who's not particularly dick-obsessed. (Why is that even a topic or concern? Ah, that's the sort of thing I want to write about.) And there's an adventure I had in Australia that I didn't write about (ok, that might fall into the sexual activity category, but not really and that's sort of the point) that I might be more inclined to discuss if I knew the only people reading it were people who expressed an interest in reading it. I guess in general I'm thinking that if I had a filtered-friends list I might feel more free to write about certain topics. Or maybe I just want to be able to use the word "dick" more often.
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There are people who do not have livejournal accounts who read my journal. I doubt you are breathlessly awaiting my insight on such topics as I speak of here, but hey, I'm always happy for an audience. Let me know if you have interest and I'll figure something out.